The grumpy parrot

by | Oct 15, 2016 | Connecting Coaches | 0 comments

and waiting for it to fly away!

Yesterday I was grumpy. It seemed like a mopey, chattering parrot sat on my shoulder all day.

Everything looked uninteresting and dull and was tinged with shades of grumpiness.

It was a beautiful crisp day and the autumnal sun was breathing warmth into the air. On my dog walk I gazed at the ground sneering whenever my heart wanted to sing.

We were planning events and future work – stuff which normally whets my creative appetite and has me dreaming and conjuring up ideas. Instead I was bored, dulled by the thought of working for a living.

I smile as I look back. A petulant, disgruntled, tired teenager was unleashed inside and took me over for the day!

When Stu asked;”Are you ok, what’s wrong?” A thousand excuses and moans elbowed into my head, wanting to blame and find fault. There were so many things to point my finger at.

However, despite this I knew something deeply. Although my chattering parrot of grumpiness was loud and insistent a deeper voice called in my soul. I KNEW the grumpiness would pass.

I didn’t need to ‘get to work’ on feeling better. I didn’t need to meditate, recite mantras or write a gratitude journal. I didn’t need to turn problems over in my head and watched the bugs scuttle in the sunlight. I didn’t need to do anything.

The deeper feeling of knowing helps me realise it will all pass. Like the rain clouds my mood will pass on through.

If I try to push the grumpy parrot off my shoulder its talons dig deep and it chatters more loudly. If I leave it alone it always flies away. It might take a while, but it always leaves.

As I sit looking out on the grey skies outside my window my heart is light – the parrot has flown. I know it’ll return some day and that’s fine. When it does I will once again tune in to that deeper trust and know it will fly off again. I no longer fear the visiting parrot!

About Liz Scott & Stuart Newberry

Liz Scott & Stu Newberry are Coaching Skills trainers and 3P practitioners. They help develop coaching cultures within schools and organisations. Liz & Stu use their understanding of the 3Ps within their training and are experiencing great successes and results in the organisations they are working in. Download an Introduction to the Three Principles here.

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